Phew! Where do I even begin?! It has been MONTHS since I last posted and so much has happened! I am a full fledged married lady now and I am just now getting back into a routine after spending 2 weeks traipsing through Morocco and biking through Paris. While biking, you better believe there was unpasteurized cheese and beer in my basket!
Our wedding was absolutely spectacular, from start to finish. It was everything we had ever dreamed of, and so much more, and are so happy all our friends and family were there to celebrate with us! In the months leading up to the wedding, I saw my free time slowly disappear, and every day was filled with to-do lists, scheduling meetings and drafting emails. It was almost as if it was a part-time job! I know that sounds crazy, but it's true. I did my best to keep a high level mentality about the whole thing, trying not to get bogged down on mindless decisions and small details that at the end of the day would completely go unnoticed. That being said, there were still plenty of details for me to obsess over! I had to make decisions that I never even thought of; I almost had a breakdown when my linen supplier asked if I was having cloth napkins on the tables, and I all but burst into tears because I had NO IDEA! I started panicking that we were supposed to, but were they included in our linen package, if so, what color did I want, and if not, how much were they?
Seriously, countless hours were spent combing over minutiae like that. It was exhausting! Then there were the parts that I thought would come easily, 'oh sure we'll have a wedding program, I'll just whip one up!' Nope, not even close. I had to research parts of the mass, making sure it was all in the correct order. I needed the names and composers of the songs we'd chosen for the ceremony. We had to write the messages on the back to our friends and family, our parents, thanking them for everything they've EVER done for us. We wrote a small paragraph about our wedding bands, how I used the savings bonds from my christening to purchase them. And how we bought them from the same jeweler who made my parents wedding bands, and where my brothers and sister bought their rings. IT TOOK ME TWO WEEKS TO WRITE EVERYTHING! Something as simple as a church program took me TWO WEEKS to perfect. That is something that I definitely didn't plan for.
In the end, all of our personal touches and attention to detail (rather obsessing over details), were met with glowing praise, people are still telling me how much they loved our program, and how it was the nicest one they've ever seen - that meant a lot! We had the most amazing time, dancing and partying the night away with all our closest friends and family (all 190 of them!)
We didn't leave for our honeymoon until Monday afternoon, knowing that the last thing we'd want to do the morning after our wedding was jet off to the airport for a full days worth of travel. In the spirit of full disclosure, it was also the absolute last thing I wanted to do on Monday, too! We were so exhausted from the whirlwind weekend (not to mention the week leading up to our wedding, which threw us some not-so-much-appreciated surprises) that all I wanted to do was sleep and clean the apartment. I didn't even have time to pack for our honeymoon prior to the wedding, so I rushed home Sunday night and packed in a legitimate panic, throwing absolutely everything I owned into an over-sized suitcase. Then I spiraled out of control when I couldn't find my brand new passport. It was safely in the FedEx envelope...under my bureau, but that didn't stop me from collapsing into a puddle on my living room floor. But I promise, OUR WEDDING WAS THE BEST DAY EVER!
So, with all that said, I am back to my normal self, with a new sparkly ring in tow, and am ready to get back into the swing of things with blogging. I am not sure if I am going to continue posting about my 101 things challenge (I have been taking my picture of the day, but will admit that a few days were lost in the months/weeks leading up to the wedding). I want to continue blogging and am researching ways to redesign my site so that I can update more regularly about things that are going on, places I've been, projects I'm working on, etc., and am not held to an actual posting structure. I really enjoying blogging, and people have asked me to start writing again (granted they were my mom and Ratty, but HEY! whatever, a fan is a fan) so I want to figure out a format that works for me AND for you.
Seriously, countless hours were spent combing over minutiae like that. It was exhausting! Then there were the parts that I thought would come easily, 'oh sure we'll have a wedding program, I'll just whip one up!' Nope, not even close. I had to research parts of the mass, making sure it was all in the correct order. I needed the names and composers of the songs we'd chosen for the ceremony. We had to write the messages on the back to our friends and family, our parents, thanking them for everything they've EVER done for us. We wrote a small paragraph about our wedding bands, how I used the savings bonds from my christening to purchase them. And how we bought them from the same jeweler who made my parents wedding bands, and where my brothers and sister bought their rings. IT TOOK ME TWO WEEKS TO WRITE EVERYTHING! Something as simple as a church program took me TWO WEEKS to perfect. That is something that I definitely didn't plan for.
{I know what you're thinking, yes that is a marching band.}
{And yes, of course we ran out into the street to march with them.}
So, with all that said, I am back to my normal self, with a new sparkly ring in tow, and am ready to get back into the swing of things with blogging. I am not sure if I am going to continue posting about my 101 things challenge (I have been taking my picture of the day, but will admit that a few days were lost in the months/weeks leading up to the wedding). I want to continue blogging and am researching ways to redesign my site so that I can update more regularly about things that are going on, places I've been, projects I'm working on, etc., and am not held to an actual posting structure. I really enjoying blogging, and people have asked me to start writing again (granted they were my mom and Ratty, but HEY! whatever, a fan is a fan) so I want to figure out a format that works for me AND for you.
























